
Yo, LA, let’s talk about a breakup that shook Tinseltown harder than a Santa Ana wind. Ethan Hawke, the 54-year-old star of Training Day, just dropped some rare tea about his split from Uma Thurman in a fresh GQ Hype interview published Monday. Known for keeping his personal life on the down-low, Hawke is finally peeling back the curtain on their seven-year marriage that ended way back in 2005.
This isn’t just any Hollywood romance gone sour - we’re talking about a power couple who owned every red carpet from the Vanity Fair Oscar Party to the Cannes Film Festival. Married in ’98 after meeting on the set of the sci-fi gem Gattaca in ’97, Hawke and Thurman, now 55, share two grown kids, Maya (27) and Levon (23). But 20 years after their divorce, Hawke is still feeling the sting of that very public fallout.
“Man, it’s straight-up humiliating, even when the headlines aren’t dragging you,” Hawke confessed to GQ Hype, reflecting on the media frenzy around their 2004 split.
Picture this: two rising stars, sparks flying on the set of Gattaca, and suddenly, they’re the It couple of the late ’90s. Hawke gets candid about the “imaginative intimacy” of acting, comparing falling for a co-star to a risky game of Spin the Bottle or a SoCal summer camp fling. “It’s such a high, feels dangerous and thrilling,” he admitted, but warned it often doesn’t mesh with the grind of real life.
That thrill turned to heartbreak when their marriage hit the rocks. Rumors swirled in 2004 that Hawke had an affair with their nanny, Ryan Shawhughes, which he’s always denied. Still, post-divorce, he started dating Shawhughes, eventually marrying her in 2008. They’ve got two daughters, Clementine (17) and Indiana (14), but Hawke ain’t shy about admitting he was “depressed” after losing Thurman.
Looking back, Hawke ties the unraveling of their bond to a career peak - his Oscar nod for Training Day in 2001. “It was the best moment of my career, but my personal life fell apart,” he told GQ in 2018. That depression had him channeling his inner Holden Caulfield, seeing through the “phony” glitz of Hollywood.
While Hawke’s been spilling his soul, Uma Thurman - the Kill Bill queen herself - has kept it strictly professional when it comes to their past. Back in 2006, she told Parade magazine (via People), “I can’t say anything critical about my kids’ father. I just need to keep the peace.” That’s pure class, straight outta the Hollywood Hills.
Thurman’s moved on too, with a brief marriage to Gary Oldman from 1990 to 1992, and later welcoming a third child, Luna (13), with French financier Arpad Busson. Their on-again, off-again romance spanned from 2008 to 2014, but like a Malibu sunset, it eventually faded.
For both Hawke and Thurman, life after divorce has been a mix of new chapters and old scars. While they’ve dodged the drama in public lately, Hawke’s latest confession reminds us that even in La-La Land, heartbreak hits hard. Whether they’re spotted at Chateau Marmont or the Sundance Film Festival, this former duo’s story still has us hooked.