Inside Kerry Washington And Nnamdi Asomugha'S Enigmatic Love Story

  • By Miles
  • Dec. 15, 2025, 1:15 p.m.

Kerry Washington: Balancing Stardom with Privacy

Kerry Washington, celebrated for her raw performances in TV hits like *Scandal* and *Little Fires Everywhere*, has been captivating audiences for years. However, when it comes to her personal life, Washington prefers keeping it under wraps. In 2013, she tied the knot with Nnamdi Asomugha in an intimate ceremony in Idaho. Over their seven-year marriage, the couple has managed to maintain a veil of privacy around their relationship.

The pair tends to keep details about their personal lives out of the spotlight, as Washington explained to Glamour. "I've learned that keeping my private life private works best for me. I've been on the cover of bridal magazines before, and that kind of exposure just wasn't for me," she shared.

"I think that first sight thing for me was really important and undeniable, but I think the slow burn is what keeps you going," Washington reflected on The Drew Barrymore Show about her relationship with Asomugha.

Nnamdi Asomugha: From NFL Star to Hollywood Player

Before stepping into the world of Hollywood, Nnamdi Asomugha made his mark in the NFL. Born in Lafayette, Louisiana, and raised in Los Angeles, Asomugha's journey took him from college football at UC Berkeley to the Oakland Raiders. After retiring in 2013, he found a new passion in acting and producing, with credits like *Crown Heights* and *Harriet* under his belt.

His love for acting was sparked during his NFL days when directors on commercial sets encouraged him to pursue it further. "If I can do work that evokes strong emotions, then I know it's good work," Asomugha said, citing Eddie Murphy's *Coming to America* as an inspiration.

Beyond his professional achievements, Asomugha is known for his philanthropy. With the Asomugha Foundation, he supports underprivileged communities in Nigeria and runs a mentorship program for students in underserved areas.

A Love Story Written in the Stars

Washington and Asomugha's love story began on the Broadway stage of the Barrymore Theater during her performance in *Race*. Washington reminisces about their meeting as a significant moment, describing it as a mix of "first sight" and "slow burn." Despite the occasional swirl of rumors, they have remained steadfast in their decision to keep their marriage private.

Even their wedding had an air of mystery, with the couple using code names to disguise the event as a family reunion. "We had some fun with code names," Washington laughed, recalling how Jason Wu made her wedding gown under the guise of a dress for the "Moroccan premiere of *Scandal*."

Raising a Family and Facing Challenges Together

Today, Washington and Asomugha are parents to two children and co-parent Asomugha's daughter from a previous relationship. During the pandemic, Washington opened up about the challenges of parenting and the importance of being patient. "We’re all navigating the two pandemics, of COVID-19 and this sort of awakening around systemic racism," she noted.

The couple continues to grace red carpets together, such as their appearance at the 2025 LACMA Art + Film Gala, maintaining their status as one of Hollywood's most private yet admired couples.

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